I was asked recently what makes a session creatively fun/satisfying for a Domme? This question will have many different answers for different Dommes. For me it basically comes down to good communication throughout: before we start, and whilst we are playing. I like play to be a dance between the two of us, each feeding from the other. It doesn’t matter so much what the activity we do is, it doesn’t matter what you look like, how old you are, what your background is, how experienced you are. The only thing that really matters is that we communicate clearly.
I’m so excited, I’ve just ordered an E-STIM unit!
E-Stim Systems is a way of playing with electricity to create interesting sensations in the body. It involves a main unit from which you can adjust the electrical output with various settings and intensities, and then attach various shaped bits and pieces to this to create more different sensations. You can get pads so it’s kind of like a TENS unit, but with more versatility, or various cock attachments, clips and clamps, brushes and pinwheels, the list goes on. It can vary from soft, tingly and tickley, to fucking intense stabbing, muscle clenching, and of course everything in between.[Read more…] about E-STIM