Over 4 years ago I received a friendly email from a man called Paul who asked me to make a custom clip for him. That encounter grew into way more than I could have imagined, it was the spark that started me making clips (which I have now made nearly 200 of!) and was a surprisingly intimate and satisfying encounter which you can read more about here Connecting through Clips. Paul and I stayed in touch; I made customs for him, he bought everything in my IWantClips store, and always with pleasant and friendly email exchanges.[Read more…] about The pleasure of good company, and good kink
I hope you’ve enjoyed reading these accounts of my kinky holiday and that they’ve inspired you in some way; whether that’s with ideas of sexy things to do with a partner, or things to dream about late at night.
Todays blog post is a little different from the previous ones. So far you’ve only heard my voice describing what happened, but today you’re going to hear from B, the submissive I shared this with. He very sweetly offered this without prompting and I haven’t made any changes. I found it utterly fascinating to see how things felt from his perspective, I hope you will too.
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After writing all the posts so far easily, I’ve found this final one to be surprisingly difficult. Everything I wrote felt stilted and disconnected and, upon pondering why this is, I discovered an interesting mental process I’ve developed to deal with the emotional intensity of sessions.
Tuesday morning I woke up around 10am. Again in blissful silence with none of the usual London racket. I walked downstairs to find neatly wrapped presents awaiting me. This was an unexpected surprise. B had ordered a Mindfold and some Neal’s Yard moisturiser from my Amazon Wish List. Alongside a magnificent breakfast sandwich of square sausage, bacon and egg, it was a delightful start to our second day.
I woke up warm and cosy in a soft white bed and rolled around luxuriously. Sunlight was streaming in, birds chirping, sheep bleating, and wind swishing.
I’ve just spent 4 intense days in a remote cottage in Scotland. I was there with a client to explore how far we can push the dynamics of Dominance and submission together. As this is the first time I’ve done this I wanted to document it and, as you’re a bunch of nosey buggers, I suspected you’d like to read that documentation. Over the next few days I’ll be sharing a day-by-day account in a series of blog posts.