Over 4 years ago I received a friendly email from a man called Paul who asked me to make a custom clip for him. That encounter grew into way more than I could have imagined, it was the spark that started me making clips (which I have now made nearly 200 of!) and was a surprisingly intimate and satisfying encounter which you can read more about here Connecting through Clips. Paul and I stayed in touch; I made customs for him, he bought everything in my IWantClips store, and always with pleasant and friendly email exchanges.[Read more…] about The pleasure of good company, and good kink
Consensual Power Exchange
Last week I had the pleasure of giving a young man his very first taste of BDSM. We had such fun together, he immediately relaxed into it and took to it all like a duck to water. If you’re considering visiting but you’re a trembling bundle of nerves at the thought, read this!
The thing I love most about being a pro-domme is the variety; every day, every session is different. Media is awash with stereotypes of the Dominatrix in her leather and latex with whips and sharp tongues, but this narrow image misses out on the vast creativity and diversity BDSM encompasses. I meet so many interesting people doing this work, each with their own very individual desires, fetishes, curiosities. Every session I do is completely different, crafted through open communication and negotiation.
A few weeks ago I posted a write up of a delightful session of trampling and kicking Did you see it? When checking in that the person written about was okay with the story being published I asked if there was anything he would like to add, a little from his perspective. He got back to me with a beautiful write up of the session, which I must say was absolutely fascinating to read. He also gave permission for me to share it with you, so here it is below. Enjoy.
I’ve been asked this question a lot recently, so here’s a write up of the most recent session. It goes without saying that every one is different, I have different dynamics with everybody and my mood is different each time. This little morsel should feed your curiosity and imagination, at least for a little while.
I hope you’ve enjoyed reading these accounts of my kinky holiday and that they’ve inspired you in some way; whether that’s with ideas of sexy things to do with a partner, or things to dream about late at night.
Todays blog post is a little different from the previous ones. So far you’ve only heard my voice describing what happened, but today you’re going to hear from B, the submissive I shared this with. He very sweetly offered this without prompting and I haven’t made any changes. I found it utterly fascinating to see how things felt from his perspective, I hope you will too.
[Read more…] about Kinky Holiday Review: The submissive view
After writing all the posts so far easily, I’ve found this final one to be surprisingly difficult. Everything I wrote felt stilted and disconnected and, upon pondering why this is, I discovered an interesting mental process I’ve developed to deal with the emotional intensity of sessions.