Sir Claire - London Mistress & Femdom

BDSM & Sensual Domination by Professional Mistress in North London. Specialities inc. tie & tease, beatdown, trampling, tickling fetish, bondage, edging & CBT.

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When to arrive for a BDSM session with a Dominatrix

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Sir Claire Black in all leather sitting waiting
When you’re going to visit a Dominatrix the golden rule is to be on time!

It’s a common question, when to arrive for your BDSM session with your Mistress. Should you arrive 10 minutes early, is it okay to be late? The following article should answer those questions. All of these notes and tips are from my own experience and observations. Different Dominatrices have different policies regarding time, so of course I don’t speak for everyone, but you won’t go wrong following these simple guidelines.

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How I prepare to dish out a beatdown

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Preparation for any session is vitally important; preparation of my mind and my body, as well as the physical space. After 6 years of offering professional domination sessions I have developed a ritual that works to get me into the right headspace whether for beatdowns, sensual domination or anything else.

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Review: First time visiting a dominatrix

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Last week I had the pleasure of giving a young man his very first taste of BDSM. We had such fun together, he immediately relaxed into it and took to it all like a duck to water. If you’re considering visiting but you’re a trembling bundle of nerves at the thought, read this!

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How to turn a hotel room into a dungeon

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The fabulous Anna Williams recently wrote an excellent blog post on how to create a lovely sensual atmosphere in a hotel room. She focuses on stimulating all the senses, if you haven’t read it go do that now then come back here to learn how to kink it up a bit. You can find it here – Anna Williams Blog 

Okay, so you’ve got nice soft lighting, the room smells great, sexy music and tasty nibbles, but how do you make it kink friendly?

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