London Mistress Sir Claire

BDSM and Sensual Domination by Professional Mistress in North London. Specialities inc. tie and tease, beatdown, trampling, tickling fetish, bondage, edging and CBT.

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Perverts Picks: Recommended dining in London

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Dining in London with Mistress Claire Black

Recently I asked my Twitter followers which is their favourite restaurant in London. I asked them to consider quality of food, service and atmosphere. Unimportant were price, area of London and type of cuisine. What came from this was a list so diverse and interesting it seemed a waste to let it drift off into the wasteland of old tweets, so I pulled out the names, added a few of my own, and put them in this lovely table of delicious delights to share with you.

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Gender affirmation play and marks scene

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Light cane marks on feminized submissive bottom in gender affirmation play scene

Recently I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with a gorgeous feminine submissive. For our first meeting F wanted to do gender play and role-play, with some other of my more familiar sadistic favourites mixed in too. I’ve always been wary of gender play, my own experience of gender has been convoluted and at times quite painful, so I tread very carefully and treat this type of play with the utmost respect.

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Adventures of a Kinky Travel Companion

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International travel companion Sir Claire Black in a bikini lying on the beach in Italy
Relaxing in the shade on the beach

Have you ever considered what it would be like to go on an adventure with a kinky travel companion? It could be an intense 24/7 D/s retreat like my Scotland trip a few years ago. Or it could be a light, fun and relaxing holiday like my most recent trip to Italy. Or something in between even.

I love travelling to meet people; whether to be shown around someone’s home city, explore a new one, or to take a holiday together. Anything to get away from London for a few days and experience something different. Most recently I went on a little seaside holiday with someone I’ve known for a few years.

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When to arrive for a BDSM session with a Dominatrix

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Sir Claire Black in all leather sitting waiting
When you’re going to visit a Dominatrix the golden rule is to be on time!

It’s a common question, when to arrive for your BDSM session with your Mistress. Should you arrive 10 minutes early, is it okay to be late? The following article should answer those questions. All of these notes and tips are from my own experience and observations. Different Dominatrices have different policies regarding time, so of course I don’t speak for everyone, but you won’t go wrong following these simple guidelines.

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Domestic Service: one sub’s account

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There’s a stereotype of the Dominatrix serviced by a stable of submissive men eager to please. Men doing everything for their Goddess so she need never left a finger around the house. Hats off to any Domme who has managed to achieve this, mostly I’ve found so called ‘domestic subs’ or ‘service subs’ take more work than they are worth. Domestic service should not be work for the domme!

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