Some points of contact etiquette
Before you contact me make sure you’ve read my Sessions and FAQ pages, they’re full of useful information. You’re going to impress me most by showing you’ve taken time to understand me, and to understand yourself.
After you’ve read these pages thoroughly I’d love to hear from you. Send me an email and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.
Below are a list of questions for your introductory email. Make sure to answer all of them so that I can have a good idea of whether we will be compatible or not. The ideal first contact will strike a balance between being clear and concise and also friendly enough to give me a sense of who you are. I’m fortunate that I can be very selective about who I see, so make this one count.
I generally expect booking to take between 4-8 emails from your introduction email, through the deposit payment and including my confirmation that we’re all set. If it takes longer than this I will request a tribute for my time.
- A little about yourself (e.g. name, age, location, profession …)
- Why are you contacting me specifically?
- What are your interests and your limits?
- How do you want to feel when we are together? How do you want to feel after? (max 3 words each)
(eg. used, degraded, in pain, horny, frustrated, humiliated, useful, small, cared for, held, ignored, insignificant, important, cherished, focussed, out of control, scared…) - Your previous experience of play (if any; none is fine, just let me know)
- How long you would like to book for
- Three dates and times that work for you (I’m not available on Mondays or Tuesdays. Check Peacock Parlour’s availability if you would like to meet there)
- Any medical issues that will affect our BDSM play
Email Sir Claire to apply for a session sirclaireblack@gmail.com
Keep up to date
If you’re not quite ready to email me yet you can always keep up to date with my sexy adventures and kinky escapades by following me on Twitter (SirClaireBlack).
If you just want to get to know me a bit better before taking the plunge, you can watch some of my clips on IWantClips to give you a taste of my interests. Although do note that clips often look more intense than a live session would be, so don’t let yourself get intimidated – we can take things way more slow and gentle than that.