London Mistress Sir Claire

BDSM and Sensual Domination by Professional Mistress in North London. Specialities inc. tie and tease, beatdown, trampling, tickling fetish, bondage, edging and CBT.

Writings

Adventures of a Kinky Travel Companion

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International travel companion Sir Claire Black in a bikini lying on the beach in Italy
Relaxing in the shade on the beach

Have you ever considered what it would be like to go on an adventure with a kinky travel companion? It could be an intense 24/7 D/s retreat like my Scotland trip a few years ago. Or it could be a light, fun and relaxing holiday like my most recent trip to Italy. Or something in between even.

I love travelling to meet people; whether to be shown around someone’s home city, explore a new one, or to take a holiday together. Anything to get away from London for a few days and experience something different. Most recently I went on a little seaside holiday with someone I’ve known for a few years.

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When to arrive for a BDSM session with a Dominatrix

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Sir Claire Black in all leather sitting waiting
When you’re going to visit a Dominatrix the golden rule is to be on time!

It’s a common question, when to arrive for your BDSM session with your Mistress. Should you arrive 10 minutes early, is it okay to be late? The following article should answer those questions. All of these notes and tips are from my own experience and observations. Different Dominatrices have different policies regarding time, so of course I don’t speak for everyone, but you won’t go wrong following these simple guidelines.

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Domestic Service: one sub’s account

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There’s a stereotype of the Dominatrix serviced by a stable of submissive men eager to please. Men doing everything for their Goddess so she need never left a finger around the house. Hats off to any Domme who has managed to achieve this, mostly I’ve found so called ‘domestic subs’ or ‘service subs’ take more work than they are worth. Domestic service should not be work for the domme!

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Birthday fantasy part 1

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I’ve created the ultimate birthday fantasy scene for myself. This is, for the most part, made up from actual experiences I’ve had, with a couple of embellishments. The hotel room is based on a real one in Paris I stayed in years ago, I wish I had a record of it’s name! There will be multiple parts posted on the lead up to my birthday on the 17th Dec. Enjoy this introduction!

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How I prepare to dish out a beatdown

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Preparation for any session is vitally important; preparation of my mind and my body, as well as the physical space. After 6 years of offering professional domination sessions I have developed a ritual that works to get me into the right headspace whether for beatdowns, sensual domination or anything else.

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Should Dominatrices remove their body hair?

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They should do whatever the fuck they want!

Now we’ve got that out of the way, here are some more detailed thoughts. Body hair is a controversial subject for women. Society presents smooth, hairless forms as the ideal beauty standard. Models, actresses, celebrities, porn stars – all the figureheads of desire are bald save their perfectly groomed hair and carefully plucked eyebrows (and occasional tuft of manicured pubic hair). [Read more…] about Should Dominatrices remove their body hair?

Sensual Domination Session

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I wait in my leather Chesterfield chair. You walk in hunched and anxious at first, then eyes wide with surprise and wonder as you notice the room around you. It’s a fully kitted kinky playspace: atmospheric coloured lighting, full scaffold rig, padded floors, 2m high mirror, kneeling bench, sturdy cage and bed and racks of toys all hidden in an unassuming North London flat. With the soft fabrics and harsh steel scaffold it balances sensual and scary, sexy and intimidating.

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