Writings

Becoming a personal sub

June 8, 2020 By Claire Black Leave a Comment

I’ve had lots of requests from people wanting to become my personal sub recently, so I’m going to set a few things straight here. In this post you will find information on what it really means to serve a dominant person, what I expect from you, what you can expect to do and experience, and how to get started if this is your path. Of course this is all only applicable to serving me, other Dommes will likely have slightly different perspectives so make sure you ask for clarification before offering yourself up.

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Gender affirmation play and marks scene

January 13, 2020 By Claire Black 1 Comment

Light cane marks on feminized submissive bottom in gender affirmation play scene

Recently I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with a gorgeous feminine submissive. For our first meeting F wanted to do gender play and role-play, with some other of my more familiar sadistic favourites mixed in too. I’ve always been wary of gender play, my own experience of gender has been convoluted and at times quite painful, so I tread very carefully and treat this type of play with the utmost respect.

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Adventures of a Kinky Travel Companion

July 30, 2019 By Claire Black 1 Comment

International travel companion Sir Claire Black in a bikini lying on the beach in Italy — Relaxing in the shade on the beach

Have you ever considered what it would be like to go on an adventure with a kinky travel companion? It could be an intense 24/7 D/s retreat like my Scotland trip a few years ago. Or it could be a light, fun and relaxing holiday like my most recent trip to Italy. Or something in between even.

I love travelling to meet people; whether to be shown around someone’s home city, explore a new one, or to take a holiday together. Anything to get away from London for a few days and experience something different. Most recently I went on a little seaside holiday with someone I’ve known for a few years.

When to arrive for a BDSM session with a Dominatrix

April 11, 2018 By Claire Black 2 Comments

Sir Claire Black in all leather sitting waiting

When you’re going to visit a Dominatrix the golden rule is to be on time!

It’s a common question, when to arrive for your BDSM session with your Mistress. Should you arrive 10 minutes early, is it okay to be late? The following article should answer those questions. All of these notes and tips are from my own experience and observations. Different Dominatrices have different policies regarding time, so of course I don’t speak for everyone, but you won’t go wrong following these simple guidelines.

Domestic Service: one sub’s account

April 3, 2018 By Claire Black Leave a Comment

There’s a stereotype of the Dominatrix serviced by a stable of submissive men eager to please. Men doing everything for their Goddess so she need never left a finger around the house. Hats off to any Domme who has managed to achieve this, mostly I’ve found so called ‘domestic subs’ or ‘service subs’ take more work than they are worth. Domestic service should not be work for the domme!

Birthday fantasy part 1

November 18, 2017 By Claire Black 5 Comments

I’ve created the ultimate birthday fantasy scene for myself. This is, for the most part, made up from actual experiences I’ve had, with a couple of embellishments. The hotel room is based on a real one in Paris I stayed in years ago, I wish I had a record of it’s name! There will be multiple parts posted on the lead up to my birthday on the 17th Dec. Enjoy this introduction!

How I prepare to dish out a beatdown

November 14, 2017 By Claire Black 1 Comment

Preparation for any session is vitally important; preparation of my mind and my body, as well as the physical space. After 6 years of offering professional domination sessions I have developed a ritual that works to get me into the right headspace whether for beatdowns, sensual domination or anything else.

Should Dominatrices remove their body hair?

September 21, 2017 By Claire Black Leave a Comment

They should do whatever the fuck they want!

Now we’ve got that out of the way, here are some more detailed thoughts. Body hair is a controversial subject for women. Society presents smooth, hairless forms as the ideal beauty standard. Models, actresses, celebrities, porn stars – all the figureheads of desire are bald save their perfectly groomed hair and carefully plucked eyebrows (and occasional tuft of manicured pubic hair). [Read more…] about Should Dominatrices remove their body hair?