I’ve had lots of requests from people wanting to become my personal sub recently, so I’m going to set a few things straight here. In this post you will find information on what it really means to serve a dominant person, what I expect from you, what you can expect to do and experience, and how to get started if this is your path. Of course this is all only applicable to serving me, other Dommes will likely have slightly different perspectives so make sure you ask for clarification before offering yourself up.[Read more…] about Becoming a personal sub
Recently I asked my Twitter followers which is their favourite restaurant in London. I asked them to consider quality of food, service and atmosphere. Unimportant were price, area of London and type of cuisine. What came from this was a list so diverse and interesting it seemed a waste to let it drift off into the wasteland of old tweets, so I pulled out the names, added a few of my own, and put them in this lovely table of delicious delights to share with you.[Read more…] about Perverts Picks: Recommended dining in London
I’ve been quiet on here for a while because I’ve been entirely immersed in a super exciting new project. I’ve been creating a brand new dungeon that is now available to hire in North London, it is called The Peacock Parlour!
A while back I asked my Twitter followers what they would like to know about me in a blog post and this question came up: What’s my everyday life like outside of work?
A few weeks ago I had a request to make a custom video clip from a lovely gentleman, lets call him Paul, who couldn’t visit me in the flesh due to illness. I’d been meaning to figure out how to make and sell clips for years, but without any motivation it never quite happened. This was the perfect opportunity for me to get paid to learn with an externally imposed deadline.
A few months ago I was asked to be in a mini-documentary for channel 4 about Shibari. I was naturally cautious, BDSM gets some terrible press, but after researching the company I decided to go for it. This was definitey the right decision and I’m absolutey delighted with what we created. The guys at Medialab were a pleasure to work with, and the finish product is something I am proud of. It portrays the tenderness and beauty inherent in Shibari without any of the sensationalising or ‘oh but not us’ mentality we so often see when fetishes are shown on mainstream media.
I posted a while back about my visit to a friendly kinky doctor to pick his brain, and pick it I did. Over dinner we had a wonderful long conversation where every concern I had was aired and answered. The most interesting and useful thing I learned was about the Vasovagal Response, let me share this with you.
Every Mistress has their own unique process, here’s mine…[Read more…] about Stranger to submissive in 8 steps – meeting a Dominatrix