I’ve been quiet on here for a while because I’ve been entirely immersed in a super exciting new project. I’ve been creating a brand new dungeon that is now available to hire in North London, it is called The Peacock Parlour!
A while back I asked my Twitter followers what they would like to know about me in a blog post and this question came up: What’s my everyday life like outside of work?
A few weeks ago I had a request to make a custom video clip from a lovely gentleman, lets call him Paul, who couldn’t visit me in the flesh due to illness. I’d been meaning to figure out how to make and sell clips for years, but without any motivation it never quite happened. This was the perfect opportunity for me to get paid to learn with an externally imposed deadline.
A few months ago I was asked to be in a mini-documentary for channel 4 about Shibari. I was naturally cautious, BDSM gets some terrible press, but after researching the company I decided to go for it. This was definitey the right decision and I’m absolutey delighted with what we created. The guys at Medialab were a pleasure to work with, and the finish product is something I am proud of. It portrays the tenderness and beauty inherent in Shibari without any of the sensationalising or ‘oh but not us’ mentality we so often see when fetishes are shown on mainstream media.
I posted a while back about my visit to a friendly kinky doctor to pick his brain, and pick it I did. Over dinner we had a wonderful long conversation where every concern I had was aired and answered. The most interesting and useful thing I learned was about the Vasovagal Response, let me share this with you.
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I’m so excited, I’ve just ordered an E-STIM unit!
E-Stim Systems is a way of playing with electricity to create interesting sensations in the body. It involves a main unit from which you can adjust the electrical output with various settings and intensities, and then attach various shaped bits and pieces to this to create more different sensations. You can get pads so it’s kind of like a TENS unit, but with more versatility, or various cock attachments, clips and clamps, brushes and pinwheels, the list goes on. It can vary from soft, tingly and tickley, to fucking intense stabbing, muscle clenching, and of course everything in between.[Read more…] about E-STIM