All sessions, whether hot or cold, begin with a friendly chat so I can get to know you and understand what makes you tick. This is non-negotiable. I don’t enjoy playing with people I have no connection with.
Bringing you under my control
However, that is where the similarities between all my sessions ends. From here on it it’s all designed specifically to take you where we both want you to go. I might start by instructing you to undress, one item at a time, whilst I watch you become more vulnerable. I will most probably inspect you, deciding which areas I would enjoy hurting and how.
Do as you’re told
For the duration of the session you will do only as you are told. You will not so much as move a muscle without my instruction, or face the consequences (which range from a firm punishment caning, to me laughing at your inability to follow simple instructions). Your failure to comply will doubtless lead to untold torments.
Who needs role play?
I don’t need a reason to hurt or punish, torment, trample or degrade you; my pleasure at torturing you is reason enough. But if you deeply desire some scenario to contain my torments I will consider role play scenarios you suggest.
I will fuck you up
Next we might move into a beatdown, where your writhing body accepts my punches and kicks. Or we might move into more traditional corporal punishment with the cane or the tawse. Perhaps you want to feel the sting of my whip or my insults. Or maybe you just want to abase yourself by worshiping my Dr Martens before they trample all over you.
What happens in a BDSM session?
Below are some of the acivities that work especially well in a more cold or intense session. This is not an exhaustive list. Is there something you want to try? Provided it’s not listed in my boundaries I’m interested.
- Baton
- Beatdown
- Blindfold
- Bondage
- Boot worship
- Cage time
- Canes
- CBT (cock and ball torture)
- CFNM (clothed female naked male)
- CP (corporal punishment)
- Degradation
- E-Stim electro play
- Golden shower/watersports
- Humiliation/SPH (small-penis humiliation)
- Kicking
- No safeword (only after we know each other)
- Paddle/strap
- Punching (with MMA gloves or bare-knuckle punching)
- Riding crop
- Rough body play
- Spanking
- Tawse
- Trampling
- Whips (sjambok, single-tail whips …)
My limits
There are things I do in small amounts, and there are things I do not do at all. The following I only engage in lightly: degrade/verbally abuse you, humiliate you or kick your balls.
I do not offer the following: anal penetration of you (pegging/strap-on …), any penetration of me, hurting you until you pass out, use of nitrous oxide or other substances, shouting, playing with shit or vomit.
I reserve the right to end a session at any time. Whilst I do enjoy playing hard, it takes time to build trust for that. If you are pushing to go further than I am comfortable with I will stop.