Over 4 years ago I received a friendly email from a man called Paul who asked me to make a custom clip for him. That encounter grew into way more than I could have imagined, it was the spark that started me making clips (which I have now made nearly 200 of!) and was a surprisingly intimate and satisfying encounter which you can read more about here Connecting through Clips. Paul and I stayed in touch; I made customs for him, he bought everything in my IWantClips store, and always with pleasant and friendly email exchanges.[Read more…] about The pleasure of good company, and good kink
It’s been a long cold, dark winter, but with the sun returning, and lockdown lifting, I am looking forward to a very kinky spring, and I hope you’ll join me.
I’ll be offering sessions from 12th April, the time when hairdressers, tattooists and other personal services are allowed to resume. Of course this will be more of a gentle re-entry to the BDSM world, rather than a the big kink fest we all crave, safety is still paramount after all.
Before we meet I’ll need to know a bit about what you’ll be doing in the two weeks preceding our session, will you be working near others, do you live with others, will you be taking long journeys on public transport? I will use this information to make an informed decision about when we can meet.
As detailed in my last post about building relationships I will be prioritising people I already know and longer bookings, so it may take a little while to play, but it will be worth the wait.
After all this time there are so many things I want to do, but what I’m really in the mood for is some sensual domination sessions. I just can’t wait to have a man tied up below me begging for release whilst I tease and torment mercilessly. Keeping him on the edge, senses all ablaze, desperate for it to stop, and desperate for it to never end.
Do you want to be that man? Then get in touch…
A lot has changed for me over the past 6 months, as is true for many people I am sure. I’ve had a lot of time to reflect on what is most important to me in my life and in my work, and in both cases, relationships are integral to my pleasure. Starting immediately I will be changing how I offer sessions, working in the way that brings me most enjoyment and satisfaction. The changes have been detailed below.[Read more…] about In Person Sessions: Focus on Relationships
I’ve had lots of requests from people wanting to become my personal sub recently, so I’m going to set a few things straight here. In this post you will find information on what it really means to serve a dominant person, what I expect from you, what you can expect to do and experience, and how to get started if this is your path. Of course this is all only applicable to serving me, other Dommes will likely have slightly different perspectives so make sure you ask for clarification before offering yourself up.[Read more…] about Becoming a personal sub
Recently I asked my Twitter followers which is their favourite restaurant in London. I asked them to consider quality of food, service and atmosphere. Unimportant were price, area of London and type of cuisine. What came from this was a list so diverse and interesting it seemed a waste to let it drift off into the wasteland of old tweets, so I pulled out the names, added a few of my own, and put them in this lovely table of delicious delights to share with you.[Read more…] about Perverts Picks: Recommended dining in London
Recently I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with a gorgeous feminine submissive. For our first meeting F wanted to do gender play and role-play, with some other of my more familiar sadistic favourites mixed in too. I’ve always been wary of gender play, my own experience of gender has been convoluted and at times quite painful, so I tread very carefully and treat this type of play with the utmost respect.[Read more…] about Gender affirmation play and marks scene
Last week I met with a lovely man for his first ever visit to a Dominatrix. He was understandably nervous when he arrived, but after a few minutes of getting to know each other we were both excited to play, and an excellent session followed.[Read more…] about Testimonial: First scene with a Dominatrix